I Am Not Heartless, I Just Use My Heart Less... 


this type of sentence we use many times or read them. But it not just a sentence , it happens with everyone in some of the situations in their own life.
  
                 So the point is "heartless" not just a word it's a untold n invisible feeling...the person who says he/she is heartless then they are not caring and having cold heart.But according to google as an adjective Heartless means 
"lacking of courage"(older meaning).

Cold and Heartless both are actually an Emotional Defense Mechanism mostly time people use to avoid getting hurt.Not everyone feels heartless.

According to me, "when a person is mentally tired n stressed and he/she don't want anyone in their life or close to them then they used to be heartless one to avoid their feelings and many time they just hide feelings not to getting hurt by someone neither physically nor mentally i.e is emotionally."

Trust is most important base of relationships in the world. It is like glue of life. and it's most essential ingredient in effective communication.Heartless people are not cruel or threat for others.They are just not prepared themselves to fight against their own feelings.This people have fear of trusting someone.

Many times people used to be harsh with others just to ignore what they feels.
It impact on human is getting emotional pain because of lack of social activities.

And after time passes such people live alone , not mix with friends not even with their family members also. They always ran away from the situations, conditions, problems occur in their life at some movements...and started making excuses ...spent time in their own world i.e alone, loneliness.May be they become An INTROVERT people by nature.